Tough guy or sensible and understanding?

A little of both. If you can balance it, thats win.

someone thats sensible and understanding, but knows when its time to be the tough guy

Nowadays most girls want the extremely tough guy, but will not admit it. Are there exceptions? Sure, but proof is in the puddin' brah. Why do you think UFC / Tapout / Affliction / Ed Hardy is so popular now? Girls lust for the tough guy and it just sprawled off of that.

UFC -> Tapout -> Affliction -> Ed Hardy. If you're balanced you're going to have a harder time finding a girl, since most girls are lusting for the "hard ass" nowadays when most guys haven't even been in a REAL fight. Pretty funny imo. So many guys at my gym wear Tapout shirts & act hard.

I've got like extreme hardcore PTSD from the Army now & anytime someone startles me, I won't jump but I'll bow up like I'm about to swing. I did that one day at the gym and some jackass wearing a Tapout shirt said "You don't wanna do that dude", then chuckled. I asked him why. He said "I know MMA". What a jackass.

imo let it fade out. I definently see this whole "MMA Fad" going out as fast as it came in. One swift ass kicking to these ass jockey's from someone who really is hard & it'll be tough for them to act hard after everyone knows they had their ass kicked.

Mega long post. ha ha. I'm just so sick of all these losers acting like they can fight

Sensible and understanding, I'm man enough for the both of us...too much would be overkill.

Definitely a combination. My guy has to be sensible and understanding but still know how to be a man.

Sensible and understanding. A guy who thinks picking fights and hitting people is impressive would attract nothing but laughter from me.

Most girls don't want the tough meat head. They want someoen who can understand them as best as a guy can atleast, there is little romance left in the world, but i'll keep my fire alite for as long as i can,

i dont understand this idea that girls always want the tough guy! NO WE DONT!!!! Believe it or not girls actually want the sensible one with a good head on them.

a combo of both =)